Thursday, December 30, 2021

A Hot Mess

 So I wound up getting a booster shot on the 20th.    Honestly I wasn't keen on getting one.   I'm not a conspiracy theorist but I feel like everyday they're saying something different about COVID and I question what's real vs fiction.    It does seem like there is this peer pressure to get the vaccine even though it may not protect you 100%.   Dom definitely was pressuring me to get it having got his around the Thanksgiving holiday.     He said that he felt fine afterwards and didn't notice any symptoms.

I unfortunately couldn't say the same.   I managed to get through the 20th okay but the next morning I definitely wasn't myself.    Besides the shoulder pain (which I experienced with the two previous shots), I was very low on energy and felt feverish.   I had to push myself to help Dom who himself is dealing with some other health issues as a result of his diabetes.     He had a follow up medical appointment the same day as my shot and found out his big toe was extremely swollen up and was bleeding (he did say that he cut his toenails aggressively but didn't notice anything unusual before our weekend trip).   I pushed myself to help him set up a foot bath and then dry his feet off and apply antibiotic cream to his wounds.

My appetite seemed normal though and I didn't notice the food tasting any different.   Oddly enough though at some point in the evening it felt like the fever I had "broke" and I had my energy again just before bedtime.    So that was a hot mess.

What also was a hot mess was the trip to see Ross.   The trip itself went fine and we stopped at a Mexican restaurant twenty minutes away from the theatre for dinner and margaritas before the show.   We arrived at the theatre about 15 minutes before his Christmas play started.     After getting ticket verification, we ran into Ross's partner Ray.    Ray was cordial as we briefly chatted and he directed us to some nearby seats.

The show itself was enjoyable.   I got to see Ross perform with other cast members performing various Christmas medleys.     Ross himself was hilarious as Elvis and he had other singing parts throughout.

So after the show Ross came out to greet Dom and I.    He thought it would be easier if he rode with us instead of us following them, which made sense.    He got a kick out of the million masks I had in the back seat and didn't hesitate to joke about it.   (I do need to organize them into a couple bags since it is a bit out of hand.)    The conversation went fine though I already sensed there was an awkward tension between Ross and Dom.   I believe it started when Ross was reminding me about the casino that wasn't too far from him which Dom balked at immediately since he doesn't like casinos.   So then Ross kept repeating it which got Dom hotter.   It didn't help either when Ross mentioned his pet dog and Dom mentioned not being a fan of dogs.    It was just a mess.

We got to the house and was greeted once more by Ray.   We had a quick tour of the house before Ross took us to our room where we quickly changed and came back downstairs for some wine and cheese.   Dom was chatting away with the guys but didn't seem to allow me to speak much.   Ross ended up talking a lot about the things in his house which included several vintage juke box machines, a couple 80's pinball machines, and a baby grand.   Ray excused himself for bed and the evening ended with Ross allowing us to play sample records off his jukeboxes.

Dom and I went to the guest room which was actually a separate master with its own bathroom and closet.   We both prepared for bed and the toilet decided to start acting up.   I didn't understand why the toilet kept running.   It was full and the water was basically falling into the overflow area.    Dom didn't care much for the bed either.    I didn't know the brand but it was one that felt firm yet contoured to the body.   Dom felt like the bed was too soft and trapping him inside and making it difficult to move around.

Dom eventually fell asleep but I found myself sneezing and needing to blow my nose constantly.   To reduce the noise from the bathroom, I closed both bathroom doors.   I didn't have any tissue so borrowed a roll of toilet paper to put by my beside.   I finally was able to fall asleep but woke up two hours later when Dom needed to get out of the bed.   Unfortunately the side of his bed was close to the wall so he needed to get out from my side.    He decided since he was awake that he would go downstairs into the living room.   I wasn't sure if he should since it was around 4:30 AM but he insisted.   I fell back asleep for a few more hours.

I learned later that Dom inadvertently saw both Ray and Ross naked as they headed downstairs.   They weren't aware that Dom was downstairs at the time.   By the time I woke up which was around 7:30 AM, I found the three of them in mid-conversation.    Some of it ended up being salacious conversations about various cast members.   We had some conversation and then our hosts began to prepare breakfast for us.    Dom was happy to see black raspberry jam as it reminded him of a time he tried to convince some friends of his about there being such an item.   

It was time soon for Ray and Ross to head back to the theatre to prepare so we needed to make our exit.   Dom and I quickly changed and then made our way back home.   

Ross and I messaged each other a few days afterwards.    He actually plans on coming up to my neck of the woods sometime in January.   He plans on staying at a local hotel and we'll meet for dinner and fun.   Of course everything depends on the weather.    

Speaking of weather, we're supposed to be getting some crappy snowy weather for New Year's Day.  I'm hating it because I have to go back to work that day.   I'm hoping it won't be as bad as they're saying.    The weathermen have been wrong before.   We shall see.

Thursday, December 16, 2021

When Will It Be Me?

 There have been quite a few of my former classmates who have successfully landed jobs in the Salesforce ecosystem.   It's been great seeing all this and it gives me hope that maybe I too can finally get a corporate job again.    But part of it has been frustrating.   I hate the interviewing process and it seems I have yet to find that right person who wants to give me a chance.

I had a decent Zoom interview with some folks at a local university.   Actually it sounded like a great opportunity to learn some new things and quickly make an impact.     And best of all I wouldn't have to drive on the days I go in the office.   I would be able to hop on the Southshore line and only walk a few feet to the office building.   So no driving...yay!    The other good thing is that all the team seems to be long-termers (meaning they've worked there for at least ten years or more).   For me that's a win since theoretically I have about 10 - 15 working years left in me before retirement and it would be nice to find a stable place to get through those years.    I'm waiting to see if I'll get extended an offer or get another rejection.   The whole process is frustrating.

However I believe I may have a tentative offer for a 12 week internship.   It won't happen until mid-February though so I'm still trying to find other options.    But if nothing pans out, it'll be good to have this to fall back on.   The caveat is I have no idea what company the internship would be with.    But if it goes well, they get the option to hire me full-time.

I have another potential interview next week before Christmas as well.   So I'm still searching for that next gig.   I hope one day it'll be my turn to say I found a job in the Salesforce ecosystem and I can say bye, bye, bye to the Amazon Warehouse.

In other news it's holiday time and I have a full driving schedule.    On Saturday Dom and I head outside of Indianapolis to see Ross's Christmas show.   Dom's starting to ask more questions about Ross which is fine.   I haven't gone as far as saying we had an interest in each other but I feel like Dom can read between the lines.   He's asked two or three separate times in the last week how we've met which I've explained several times.   I had to check myself not to snap at him when he asked the third time.  *LOL*.    We've had some crazy winds in our area and Amazon hit the news when a small warehouse in Edwardsville, IL had their roof get torn off and six employees lost their lives.    Thankfully the weather should be decent for our road trip.

Then I have to gear myself for traveling to Detroit before Christmas.    Eugene's actually traveling to Detroit tomorrow and for some reason he thought I was going at same time.   Hopefully we'll get to hang out but I'm not sure if it'll happen.    Also I don't know if he and his friend plan to hang out in Chicago for New Year's Eve.   I've hung out with them in the past but this year New Year's Day falls on my workday and I'm not sure if I get that off or not.     But if I do have to work, it's holiday pay....yay!

So my car will be put to the test once more.   Here's hoping everything goes well.   Stay tuned!

P.S. Jamie never did reach out to me as far as hanging out.   I have a whole different rant on that but I'll spare the details...for now.

Friday, December 3, 2021

CGMC Bound

 Dom and I will be taking the Southshore line to downtown Chicago in less than two hours to see the Chicago Gay Men's Chorus perform at the Harris Theatre.     It's been our annual tradition since we started dating in 2014.    Well actually I was introduced to it two years before Dom and I started dating by a guy on my gay bowling league that I used to bowl at.    The guy in question was a singer in the choir and invited several bowlers to check it out.    We definitely prefer going to the show at the Harris theatre when they have it (they seem to have it there every other year) because we don't have to drive into Chicago and the theatre is literally a few steps from the Millennium Southshore stop. 

It's a very enjoyable show and I've gone every December since I was first introduced to it.   This will be the first show Dom and I have gone to since the pandemic started.   The 2020 show wound up being a virtual event that in all honestly didn't live up to the live shows.   So we're looking forward to checking it out with the protocols Harris Theatre have in place.    They require all patrons to show proof of vaccination and to wear masks regardless of vaccination status (though if you don't show proof I'm assuming they won't let you in even if you wear a mask).  What a world we're living in.   It'll be this way for a while it seems.  

I can't even tell you all the conspiracy theories I've been reading in relation to this pandemic.   Some of them are truly scary (like a new world order) but I'll have to discuss that another time.

The CGMC show isn't the only one we'll be attending this year.   I spoke to Dom about Ross's show in central Indiana and to my surprise, Dom was game to check it out given the overnight accommodations.   I hate having to take off two days of work (which pretty much is my entire shift) but it makes the most sense.    Plus it's not like I want to go to work...though I need the money.  Of course I assume I'll be driving.   Ross's show kicks off tonight as well and will be running for the next three long weekends.    We plan on checking out his next to last show on Saturday, December 18th.   Of course it all depends on the weather.   If it's going to be a blizzard, I'm not risking driving out there and I'm sure Dom won't either.

But I'm really excited to meet Ross.   It'll be interesting to see if we have any chemistry.   Obviously nothing is going to happen that weekend but maybe we'll plan a meeting in the future.

Oh well, time to eat some crappy fast food from Mickey D's before the train ride.